I always ask them to go to the white west for pity:

{The West has always been very generous when it comes to PITYING the people of poor countries-- especially the Africans. Right after the "Band Aid" was announced, a tabloid in England printed a cartoon, in which one African said to another, "We must organise a famine to save some aging rock-stars."
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Sometimes, it is hard to know who is saving whom!
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If and when China's project in Africa is completed, Africa will need the pity of no one-- NOT the West's and not China's. Africa will be able to STAND ON THEIR OWN 2 FEET. That would totally crush the ego of the West and its sense of self-importance. For China to do that is totally unacceptable to the West.}