trust me I have several  such asswipes in MY family and I hate them (but who do they call when they're in trouble?me that's who) but they can kiss my very yellow sweet ass but to my relief and delight this newer generation seems to be are far more comfortable "in their own skin" and if worse comes to worse WW3 -we'll share the same internment camp like all those self-haters  but I'll finally get some much needed rest or I'll kill them myself haha .